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Teams that talk well together tend to stick together. Many of us work together for years on end yet never take time out to work on our team-talk. If your team never discusses openly how we come across to each other or the way we talk together, you’re probably perpetuating errors and omissions in the way you see and relate to each other…
Communication or the lack of it, is a constant complaint in most teams. At the bottom of better teamwork is the ability to have better conversations. They’re at the core of constructive teams – the way we stay in touch, build bonds, exchange ideas, sort out plans, fix problems and take action.
Better conversation means better teamwork. The way teams talk together is a telling indicator of morale, culture, climate, performance and team cohesion. It’s a key element in the effective functioning of any team.
Yet while we engage in them all the time, the importance of becoming more skilled at conversations seems to escape us. Many of us work together for years and never take the time to reflect on how we come across or talk to each other.
It’s as though conversations are so fundamental to everyday life, most of us never stop to think how we might become better at them. If your team’s never talked openly over how you work in with, and come across to, each other, you’re probably perpetuating errors and omissions in the way you see and relate to each other. And that’s what this clinic is all about…
This 1-day fast-track of our longer Leading through Conversations program, covers 7 principles for improving your team-talk along with a useful set of foundation tools to replace dysfunctional debate with the art of more skillful discussion.
Talking in Teams aims to help you and your colleagues learn how to:
Whether you’re a team leader or team worker, you explore how to apply a range of easy-to-learn discussion tools you can deploy in all sorts of settings in a supportive, safe and fun practice environment.
Topics and tools we touch on include…
Part of the appeal of our clinics is you get to practise in a safe, small group environment on new strategies for managing conversations in a more mindful and effective manner.
We think people learn best by doing, so we give you lots of practice to build your confidence to use the tools back at work, backed up by a comprehensive self-coaching guide to support your continued learning
Very enjoyable. Interactive activities were unique and hands-on approach was very useful – as was having a bit of a laugh along the way!
Excellent practical tools and ideas, structured very well and delivered in an interactive way
Thanks for a great learning experience. Some activities thought provoking and some just plain good fun - and the guide is full of excellent tools!
Lots of tremendous activities to assist with my practice and development
Thoroughly enjoyable, challenging in a positive way and insightful. I’d do it all again! The guide has become my ‘bible’!
Very positive and useful, with a good balance of input and practice
Whether you’re a team leader or team member, knowing how to use different tools to have more constructive conversations is a vital yet overlooked area for better teamwork, better leadership and better performance. This clinic is suitable for both team members and leaders. And we find leaders who come along with a contingent of their team representatives often gain a lot more from this clinic
Ideally, for leaders wanting to become more adept with conversations generally, we recommend coming along to our full 2-day Leading Conversations program. If you’re looking to develop better skills for handling difficult conversations, see our long running 2-day Dealing with Difficult Discussions program for leaders or its 1-day fast-track Tackling Tough Talks. For conversations about performance, our Positive Performance Conversations clinic is for leaders and for staff our in-house clinic Making Performance Conversations work for You prepares people for better outcomes with these often troublesome conversations…
Take-away handy-sized pocket guide full of tools and actions you can tap into to build on what we cover in this session…
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See our online Course Calendar for where and when this program is next available publicly; as well as other Change Forum programs on offer in your area. If you’d like to arrange an In-House event tailored to suit your needs, get in touch below.
High Tension Encounters (HTEs) happen regularly in any workplace – offices, schools, hospitals, councils, work-sites, factories…
The negative impact of poorly-handled HTEs on colleagues, customers, patients and work-teams is well-attested. Whether it’s toxic personalities, inveterate arguers, belligerent bosses or conflict-ridden contrarians, HTE’s distract from productive work focus, detract from good results, debilitate teams, distress and unsettle us, and create caustic cultures in the long term…
The customary line is that conflict is beneficial – it clarifies, corrects, changes and leads to better solutions and decisions.
Yet another line of thought suggests something quite different: that it has prolonged negative consequences that undermine relationships, trust and collaboration as well as distracting from task-focus and wasting resources in prolonged conflict mediation processes that largely don’t work.…
So, whether or not it is sporadically constructive, in many instances conflict it seems is damaging, harmful and linked to high stress and staff turnover.
Building conversational capability to better deal with difficult HTEs may not reduce their frequency but it can help us to handle them better, have more constructive confrontations and mitigate some of the negative consequences that follow on the heels of unregulated conflict.
© Bill Cropper – The Change Forum 2023
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